Turn complaints into observations

You might not have beef with the universe

“We have first raised a dust and then complain we cannot see.”
–Bishop Berkeley

Complaints are a simple cocktail: Squeeze one observation about reality, add a jigger of resistance, shake with attitude, serve on ice. Complaints are fun to sip and serve, but they’re easy to overdo. Avoid a hangover by turning complaints as observations.

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